Friday, 23 October 2009

Sex in a different position

Must reads:
A Celebration of Sex Guidebook
by Ph. D. Deborah C. Neel Ed D. Douglas E. Rosenau R. N. Ma Ed W. Ellen Fox

Sex, Romance and the glory of God
by CJ Mahaney

Pro 5:18 Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
Pro 5:19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love.

Application for men…
Plan an evening to bless your wife.
(Hopefully you will do this every week)

What do you need to organise?
Babysitter?
Food/wine/will you cook? Go for a drink? Budget? What does she like?
Candles?
Music – what is her favourite?
Quality time – turn off phone!
Communication… Have you heard her heart?
Energy levels – go home ready to give!
Clothes – what does she like you to wear?

Share your preferences of your partner as you seek to bless each other:

Husband/wife likes and dislikes:

Smell

Sight

Sound

Taste

Touch

What solutions do you have to the following barriers to regular, good, sex?

1) Too busy/tired
2) Inhibitions
3) Tension, conflict
4) Parenting demands
5) Procrastination

Which of the following would help you each night?

Go to bed at the same time/early
Tidy house
Teach the children to respect locked door
Schedule lovemaking around preferred times
Connect while apart (call,text,note,voicemail.)
Create a good atmosphere/anticipation/communication

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